The movie which was adapted from a book is about 4 year-old Colton’s near-death experience. While he was in the operating room, he went to heaven. In heaven, he sat on Jesus’ lap. He asked the angels to sing We Will Rock You. He met his older sister who died in their mum’s tummy. At this point, I could no longer stop my eyes from crying. A lot of the questions in my head were answered thru this movie. Thank you, PLDT Home DSL for the tickets and to Erlaine for the referral. 🙂 Continue reading “Of Heaven and Stronger Family Connections”
Officially, my medical leave started last April 14 when I had my dilation and curettage procedure or D&C for short or more widely known locally as raspa. It was not scheduled. I don’t know what was I thinking but I thought it won’t happen until last week. Had I known that the D&C could happen that soon, I would have prepared a transition plan at work. I am thankful for the opportunity to slow down. I am thankful for the 2 month paid leave from work. I am thankful for my understanding and supportive boss, team and colleagues. But still, I can’t help but feel guilty for the work that I had to suddenly had to pass on to them. I just hope the work-at-home tools and accesses that I requested for will be granted soon.
On the first week of my ML, the long leave did not sink in yet. I had the procedure done in Medical City. Franco stayed with me. And then Holy Week. To me, it just felt like a longer than usual long weekend. It was last week when I realized that I am blessed with a lot of time in my hands. In some ways, I am lucky that we lost our baby in summer. If it happened during the school year, I would be sulking at home with no Aki to keep me entertained. He is just so chatty and energetic that he won’t let me feel depressed nor will let me get some rest. Mega thanks also to Ate Doring. Imagine going through an emotional rollercoaster and still having to clean the dishes. I am also grateful that even if the sun has never been this powerful, we live in a breezy corner allowing us to get some work done instead of living in the airconditioned cave that is our bedroom.
Here is what I did for the first 3 days of my leave (April 21-23)
Coached/tutored/bribed/threatened Aki to write his name and his A-Z.
I am happy to report that his handwriting has improved significantly since the start of summer.
Made pandan gulaman ice candy
Got more hands on in menu planning although I was too lazy to cook.
Hosted a late Easter egg hunt for Aki and his village pals.
Used reverse psychology to make Aki eat veggie straws or kangkong stems. The more I said that he is not adventurous enough or he is not fast enough to eat them in X seconds, the more excited he got to accept my challenge.
Some weeks ago, I prayed to God to show me how can I be a better parent to Aki. The answer that I got was to read Bible stories more often. I love how I get answers to my questions and prayers. Sometimes, I wake up in the middle of the night and suddenly have answers. Or sometimes, someone would bring up the topic out of nowhere and give suggestions. I take that as a sign and answer from God.
Anyhoo, here are the questions that Aki raised after reading Bible stories to him
What is heaven?
Where is heaven?
How come we can’t see Jesus? Is he invisible?
What is holy?
What is the Holy Spirit?
Are there toys in heaven?